Séx Confession: My Problems In The Bedroom!

Ever since the first time I had séx, I’ve been afraid. Not of the séx, please. Just like any other woman with a healthy libido — I enjoy the séx. What I don’t enjoy is what can happen because of séx. Nope, not a commitment-phobe. I am, however, frightened of becoming pregnant.

The answer to your question is yes. At some point or another, I’m going to want a child. At that point, when hopefully I’m married, financially stable, and prepared — that child will be my everything. But now? For the past 10 years? No. I’m just not ready. Nowhere close.

The fear, it’s cautionary and a little irrational. Despite being on the pill for years and years now, I rarely have unprotected s*x. In a three-year relationship that ended not all that long ago, I could count those risque encounters on one hand.

And you know what? I think it’s safe to say that my fear drives every single man I ever date insane. Who am I kidding? It’s driving me insane, too.